Host and Hostess Invitations to a ball normally should be sent in good time with at least one weeks notice The host and hostess should look after their guests and not confine their attentions. They should pay most attention to those who are least known in the room. Be cordial when serving refreshments, but not importunate There should be at least a table for cards and two packs of cards placed upon each table Chess and other such anti social games should be avoided Guest Upon entering first address the lady of the house; and after her, the nearest acquaintances you may recognise in the room. Do not select the same partner frequently Distribute your attentions as much as possible Pay respectful attention to elderly persons If there are more dancers that the room will acommodate, do not join in every dance
	After dancing the male should conduct their partner to a seat male dancers should resign their partner when approached by another partner Many people do not like to play cards without a stake however stakes agreed should be very trifling sop as not to create excitement or discussion Avoid political and religious discussions. Hobbies should not be discussed Etiquette for Both Host and Guest A black coat and trousers with a white or black waistcoat are indispensable for gentlemen Officers should appear in uniform Ladies appear in full dress always wear gloves do not wear rings on the outside of your gloves avoid an excess of jewellery The arrangement of a ladies hair is most important.- bands are becoming to faces of  Grecian caste whilst ringlets are suited to lovely and expressive heads. Avoid an excess of lace or flowers A young girl should adopt simplicity of ornaments whilst a married woman can adopt a richer style or ornament The cleanliness of body especially hands, face, neck,ears and teeth should receive special attention Never be without a handkerchief. Hold it freely in the hand and do not roll it into a ball. Hold by the centre and let the corners form a fan. Avoid extreme partners and colours of handkerchief and avoid using it to much Avoid all extravagance and mannerism and be not over timid at the outset.